I would like to delete my post Silex after seeing the horrible things people are saying about me and they all seem to be from go back to the hole you crawled out of trolls! and God Bless everyone on here who is nice! Longtime lurker I've been married for years (he is 36 and I am 28). I've always been more sexual than he has, and other than this issue we get along fine. When we started out, he admitted to having some problems with viewing too much porn, and we went to counseling together before we married (I insisted on it). Everything seemed ok For the last year and a half he he refuses to initiate sex. If I want it, I have to initiate it. I wouldn't mind so much, except, except I WANT to be wanted. I work fulltime, take care of the house, have tried to be his cheerleader and friend and yet he simply doesn't seem to want me. I wear sexy lingerie at night, have talked about trying new things, try to be pleasant and loving, even though the resentment is burning a hole in my side.(No, I haven't gained any weight and according to his porn preferences, I do not believe he is -). We once went six months with no sex. It was no skin off his nose and I was crawling up the walls with misery and tension. He insists its not me. He says he just doesn't know what's wrong, and he knows it isn't normal, and I don't deserve to be treated this way. Yet he refuses to go to the doctor and won't even talk about it anymore (granted we've talked about it ad nauseum). He says its because we have "different timing." Or "our schedules just don't make time for it." All he wants to do is go to work and play World of Warcraft. He makes plenty of time for that game!!! Everytime I find evidence of porn or hours spent on WoW, he gets angry and defensive and I end up losing my temper. And now I found bills for pay per view porn on our satellite and he's installed a "private browsing" function on his internet browser. Is this our death knell? Fuck .we don't have any. We talked about having a and I don't know if that's what's causing him to do this for the last year and a half??? I'll never get the years back that I spent with him. I know if I stay, I'll never be a mom How I leave him? How can I break his heart like this? I'm considering packing up and moving back to my dad's. Is there anything I can do about this situation?Not important Adriane, 50

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