Never Married Hilaria, 38

Single Carri, 47

Most marriages if not all, at sometime or another have these problems. During and after pregnancies there are a lot of hormonal changes going on in both of you, and there is Lithopolis OH bi horney housewifes a lot of fear bringing someone new into the world. I would not a marriage counselor. I would discreatly a shrink to if your are suffering from some imbalance and how he can reduce your anxiety. I would try and simplify your life any way you can. The root of all evil is generally money. So there could be financial stresses in your life that where not there before. All he is probably wondering now is how is he going to pay the bills. Warranted or not this make a cold because you and your is what is bring all the stress on him to bring in the money. You have to put more into making him happy to help counter this stress. When he gets home have dinner hot and ready. Have everything clean. Have the ready to great him but give him thirty minutes to unwind from the stresses at work. Do not throw the in his hands. Give him a bj out of no where 5 times a week when he does not expect it. Once his stress level gets way down again and life seems good he then start being happy and showing affection. This take 2-3 months before this happens. Remember it is up to the woman to decide whether a marriage or relationship works out or not. Men are simple beings and you are either making them happy or you are not making them happy. Only when they are happy you the benefit. If you are negative to him and bring his ego down he not want to be around you. Build his ego up a little and he be happy and dependent on you to make him feel better. Believe it or not woman manage relationships and marriage, men have little or nothing to do with it. We truly are the simplest life form on earth. Clean environment, full belly, empty balls we are as happy as a dog and do about any trick you want. Never Married Dorothea, 47

Married Jolanda, 53

Divorced Hal, 40